sapiosexual

Psychology

2022

We explain what a sapiosexual is, the origin and meaning of this term. Also, what are the aspirations of a sapiosexual.

The erotic interest of a sapiosexual is determined by intelligence.

What is a sapiosexual?

The term is usedsapiosexual to refer to those persons whose erotic interest is determined by intelligence. In other words, they are people who are erotically attracted to those who demonstrate knowledge, mental quickness, sharpness or talent, rather than physical attributes or other characteristics. However, the sapiosexuals they usually build relationships of infatuation friendly, far from passion.

This term comes from a new use of the Latin rootsapere ("Know"), in the same way that it is used to refer to the scientific name of our species:Homo sapiens, the man who knows things.

In that sense, it is assumed thatsapiosexuals they prioritize the mind over the body and fall in love with the first without caring too much about the second, so, in theory, you could be totally indifferent to their gender or your biological sex. This fashion label on social networks Y software dating, has been widely accepted by the community, but it arouses little interest by sexologists and scholars of the subject, who normally consider it a fashion.

It is a useful label, as they indicate, to insist on a highly traditional aspect of human relationships, which is the valuation of the way of being of an individual over his appearance or his conduct Social. In that sense,sapiosexuals would aspire to meaningful relationships, of knowledge exchange and of learning mutual, and not just carnal relationships.

The paradox is that, in principle, whatsapiosexuals aspire has always been known aslove. Perhaps the need to be classified in this way responds to the fact that in recent times the world of affective and erotic relationships has been more banalized and commercialized than ever, through a culture superficial evaluation, simulation and appearance, which enhance tools such as Tinder or Grinder, in which you quickly choose or discard without having to know much about the other person.

If so,sapiosexuals would be more a symptom or a claim to our society, than a true novel sexual orientation.

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